India is a country where we have billion of people and all of them having different type of opinion and mindset. They consider them self expert in every field or situation and are always ready to give free advice to other irrespective of whether the other guys wants to take it or not.The mentality of people has been like that they consider giving advice as a bonus to you and would take all the credit if you achieve success in it and if not then they will try to run away from you and will say that you were not adequate or they would completely deny giving any such advice to you. I would just say to be careful and keep your eyes open.
I have also got lot of advice for my career right from the exams to my career progression and then personal advice. Some give me superstitious advice and some tell me to visit some place or take up some activity and much more. I see that we have problems in life and it can be contestant struggle and bad situation in life. It can create all sort of problems where finding the solution could be very difficult. It can create anxiety and other kind of situation which can give you mental stress too. Though I made many major problems but my friend guided me to right track and he give me best advice to improve myself and aim for the goal.
We should stay away from people who are negative and give advice to take shortcuts in life and try things which are unethical and break the laws. One of my friend cousin told me once to contact government person and give bribe in order to clear my appointment ahead of others for some government document but I took the decision to wait and follow the proper system rather than waiting for it. His advice could have been effective but it could have landed me in law problems and other issues. I would like to tell from my real time life experience from my past life and learning from others about the advice. It is often true that we believe more in people and take their advice when we are weak and not able to find the solution to the problem. But I would say that every time you cannot believe what other say to you and copy that thing blindly. One must need to use his own brain and do things what are right.
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